Do you have a “no-no” list?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 15:23

No to self - pity. It's the most addictive, self - destructive non pharmaceutical drug that will give a momentary pleasure as it seperates the victim from the reality but it will always stop you to move forward in your life. (John Gardner).
No to being 24/7 serious. Life's always fun with some silliness. And I can't even stay serious for more than an hour. It's a personality trait.
Learn to Burn for Better ~
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Say YES to the fire that makes you glow ~
No to disobeying my father. His words are - full stop.
No to replacing real books with e - books. I have a habit to sniff pages like a bookworm psycho.
Why do many Hong Kong Chinese look different from the Han Chinese in mainland China?
No to ignoring my gut feelings and intuitions. My intuitions always win over my logics. Vibes are real.
No to losing my dramatic and sarcastic side. It's not annoying. It's just that my presence demands a certain kind of attention.
No to truth or dare, especially dare. It's a scary game.
No to compromising my moral values. Integrity>>> Anything else. Better to stand alone with a spine than follow a herd lead by the spineless.
No to letting go of my habits. Reading, Writing and Music are my therapy. How can I give up on them.?
No to folding or ironing the laundry right away. It's needs 3 - 5 Business days.
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No to compromising my peace for people pleasing. If someone disturbs your peace of mind, kindly show them the Exit.
No to explain a joke. A joke that I have to explain is no joke. It's a statement.
No to tea and coffee. I am an Indian and Yes, we do exist without them .
Why do I feel like something bad is going to happen to me?
No to chasing. What's meant for you won't need to be begged for - it will always find the way to you. So, walk with dignity not with desperation.
No to ignoring the small joys in life. Life's too short to skip over the little things that make me smile.
No to doubting my cooking skills. What they say - You are busy over here - doubting your MasterChef potential while your family is afraid of your entry in kitchen. Never doubt your potential. Burn them all.(The mad king).
FAYTH✌️.
No to reply with ‘K’, ‘Hmm’ ‘Ok’etc. I am highly eligible for good vocabulary. Dry texts - Eww. Texting is an art.
No to not having a pet. We can't be a family if we are not going to keep a big fat orange cat or a golden dog or any furry friend.
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No to group projects. I like to work alone and Solo suffering is always better.
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No to not putting my earbuds in, world out..walking fast, feeling like a rockstar.(Woah.. it rhymes, I should be a poet).
No to alarm clock. I ended our relationship. I always betray her so I let her go. The things we do for love. (Sleep).
Romanticising resistance ,
No to phone calls (except family).Text me like a civilised human being.
Are women as visual as men are?
No to online shopping. Unless it's cute. Or useful. Or on a big sale. I am trying my best.
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No to missing the chance to quote my favourite lines from a book or a movie. Life is much better when you speak in iconic lines with that deep voice. Main character energy.
Repellat quod recusandae rerum adipisci deleniti.
Your relucant writer,
No to travels and trips until it's absolutely necessary. I am perfectly fine at home on my bed with my favourite novel. I hope my cousins and friends understand and stop labelling me as a boring nerd. (Fact - I am the most interesting person in our circle 🤷).
No to arrogance. Humility and kindness are way better.
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Say No the people who dim your spark ~